New insights are available regarding the relationship dynamics between Prince Harry, the Duke of Sussex, and Meghan Markle. Tom Quinn, a well-known royal biographer, offers perspectives on how their distinct societal backgrounds might have affected their bond.
Tom Quinn, author of “Gilded Youth: An Intimate History of Growing Up in the Royal Family,” discusses Prince Harry’s position in relation to his older brother, Prince William. Despite Harry’s status in line for the throne, Quinn notes that he has always been overshadowed by William. As Quinn puts it, “You can’t change the fact that William and Kate Middleton are number one.”
This perpetual secondary position and the constraints that come with the monarchy could have influenced Harry’s approach to relationships. Quinn believes, “All Harry’s complaining is really about the fact that he’s not number one, he doesn’t have a bigger role.”
Against this backdrop, Meghan Markle, shaped by the merit-based American society, might have had a special appeal to Harry. Quinn observes, “I think that’s why he clicked with Meghan because she comes from a society where if you work hard and you’re talented, you can get to the top.” Yet, any aspirations Meghan may have harbored were limited by the traditional and fixed structures of the British monarchy.
Prince Harry’s feelings regarding his position within the royal family are further highlighted in his writings. He contrasts himself as the “Spare” to William’s designation as the “Heir.” Harry’s own words depict him as a “shadow” and “support” to his older brother, existing as a contingency for William. He delves into understanding his role as a potential “diversion” and “distraction” from his brother, even raising the somber possibility of being a medical donor to William if required.
