During the 81st Golden Globes on January 7, 2024, acclaimed actress and singer, Jennifer Lopez, was asked a personal question about her recent marriage to Ben Affleck. The query, which many perceived as overly personal and uncomfortable, focused on how Lopez was certain her latest union would last given her previous matrimonial history.
Despite the nature of the question, 54-year-old Lopez replied with grace. She commented on the unpredictability of relationships, saying, “When they say you know, you know. And other times, when you didn’t know, you also didn’t know.” She further explained her approach to commitments both in her personal and professional life, underscoring her commitment to always start with the best intentions.
The Variety reporter, Marc Malkin, continued to inquire, focusing on Affleck’s views on how Lopez portrays their wedding in her life and work. Lopez defended her spouse and their relationship, underlining Affleck’s role as her “biggest fan and biggest supporter.”
Malkin’s line of questioning ignited a wave of criticism from viewers and fans who expressed dissatisfaction with the direction of the interview. Reactions on social media platforms and under the shared video labeled the interview as “embarrassing,” “awkward,” and “inappropriately rude.” Many suggested that questions focusing on Lopez’s professional ventures such as her film and music projects would have been more fitting and respectful.
Despite the discomforting nature of the interview, Lopez remained poised. She arrived at the red carpet donning a striking bubblegum pink fitted gown with oversized rosette sleeves, her hair styled in a manner reminiscent of Old Hollywood elegance. This follows her engagement and subsequent wedding to 51-year-old Ben Affleck, a relationship that has captivated the public eye.
Lopez has four marriages in her history. Her first husband was Miami, Florida waiter Ojani Noa, to whom she was married in February 1997 for 11 months. She then wed backup dancer Cris Judd in September 2001; their divorce was finalized in January 2003. In June 2004, she married singer Marc Anthony and had twins in 2008. The couple divorced in 2014.
Lopez and Affleck, commonly referred to as “Bennifer,” previously captured media attention in the early 2000s. They called off their wedding in September 2003 and split in January 2004. However, they reignited their romance after Lopez’s split with Alex Rodriguez in April 2021. The couple got engaged in April 2022 and tied the knot in a small Las Vegas ceremony in July. A formal wedding followed in August at Affleck’s estate in Georgia.
Lopez’s handling of the personal question at the Golden Globes earned commendation from fans and observers. Her ability to answer such a direct question with poise is viewed as a testament to her professionalism and grace under pressure.