Jennifer Lopez’s recent Instagram activity has sparked speculation about her marriage to Ben Affleck. Lopez, known as J.Lo, shared snippets from her 2021 song “Cambia El Paso,” leading fans to believe she might be hinting at relationship troubles. The song, which translates to “Change the Step,” focuses on themes of moving on and personal growth, which many interpret as relevant to her current situation.
The lyrics include, “He doesn’t deserve to have her in his arms” and “Her life is better now without him.” These lines have prompted conversations about the state of her marriage with Affleck, with some fans and media outlets suggesting the posts are more than just a celebration of the song’s anniversary.
Lopez’s Instagram posts come amid persistent rumors about her and Affleck’s marital issues. The couple, who wed in 2022, have been the subject of media speculation for months. Reports indicate they have been living separately, with Affleck moving his belongings out of their shared home in Beverly Hills and Lopez spending the Fourth of July weekend away from Affleck.
In a 2021 interview on SiriusXM’s Pitbull’s Globalization show, Lopez explained that “Cambia El Paso” is about embracing change. “The song is about change and not being afraid to take the step,” Lopez said. “Like, just take the step, advance, do what you need to do. If something’s not feeling right, whatever it is in your life, just make that move and dance. Dance is life and joy and happiness.”
Recent reports suggest that Lopez and Affleck have spent more time apart, fueling rumors of a possible split. A source close to the couple revealed that Affleck has moved out of their shared home and rented another. Meanwhile, Lopez has stayed at their Beverly Hills mansion.
The couple’s separate Fourth of July plans added to the speculation. Lopez was celebrating in the Hamptons with her twins, Emme and Max, whom she shares with ex-husband Marc Anthony. On the other hand, Affleck was spotted in Los Angeles with his children from his previous marriage to Jennifer Garner. Both Lopez and Affleck were seen wearing their wedding rings during the holiday weekend, which has left fans confused about the true state of their relationship.
Complicating the ongoing drama, Lopez’s family reportedly expressed concerns about her relationship with Affleck. According to sources, Lopez’s mother and sisters have advised her to move on. Jennifer’s mom told her, “Cut your losses and move on to avoid getting any deeper in this mess,'” a source revealed. Her mother added, “He was not the person she built him up to be. It’s taken too much of a toll on her, and because of this, she has lost sight of who she is and what she stands for.”
The song “Cambia El Paso” was released shortly after Lopez’s high-profile split from former MLB star Alex Rodriguez in 2021. At the time, the song was seen as an anthem of empowerment and moving forward, which seems to resonate with her current situation.
While Lopez has not directly addressed the rumors about her marriage, her social media activity keeps fans guessing. The timing of her posts and the song’s lyrics have led many to believe she might be sending a message about her relationship with Affleck.
Affleck, fluent in Spanish from his time filming a TV show in Mexico, would certainly understand the nuances of the song’s lyrics. This has led to further speculation that the posts might be a subtle way of communicating her feelings about their relationship.
Currently, neither Lopez nor Affleck has made an official statement regarding their marriage status. Fans and media outlets continue monitoring their social media for hints or updates about their relationship. The couple’s journey has been closely followed since their rekindled romance and subsequent marriage, and any developments will likely be of significant interest to their followers.