At 63, Demi Moore is rewriting the rules of her romantic life — and she’s not interested in walking down the aisle a fourth time. The “Substance” star, who has been single since her 2022 split from Swiss chef and restaurateur Daniel Humm, is reportedly enjoying a freewheeling dating life that keeps her social calendar full without the pressure of commitment.
According to an insider, the Golden Globe winner has cultivated a small group of suitors she can lean on whenever the mood strikes. And she’s got a clear preference: younger men.
“Demi still has a taste for very attractive men in their thirties and early forties, and she has no problem reeling them in,” the source said.
A Selective Approach to Romance
The actress is reportedly choosy about who earns a spot in her orbit. The source says she takes her time vetting potential companions, but once someone passes the test, she keeps him on rotation.
“It takes her time to vet a guy, but when she finds one she likes, she tends to keep him around, so she’s now got a little roster … she can call on when she’s in the mood,” the insider told the outlet.
Moore is only interested in physical pleasure with zero expectations, the source added, noting that the actress feels she already has all the companionship she needs through her three daughters and close friends. She jokes that her low-pressure approach to romance is one of her anti-aging secrets.
Three Marriages and a Long Dating History
Moore has been down the marriage road three times. She wed musician Freddy Moore in 1980, and the couple divorced in 1985. Two years later, she married Bruce Willis, and the two welcomed daughters Rumer, 37, Scout, 34, and Tallulah, 32, before divorcing in 2000.
Her third marriage was to Ashton Kutcher, 48. The pair tied the knot in 2005, and their six-year marriage ended in divorce in 2013. Moore later accused Kutcher of cheating in her memoir, “Inside Out.”
In between, Moore had a string of high-profile relationships, including with actor Timothy Hutton in 1983, Jon Cryer in 1985, and an engagement to Emilio Estevez. She also dated martial arts instructor Oliver Whitcomb and Sean Friday before her years-long relationship with Humm.
A Career Renaissance and a New Outlook
The dating chatter arrives during one of the most creatively rewarding stretches of Moore’s career. The “G.I. Jane” star earned widespread acclaim for her performance in “The Substance,” took on a role in “Landman,” and was named one of Glamour’s Women of the Year.
In a 2025 appearance on “The Late Show with Stephen Colbert,” Moore reflected on how this chapter has reshaped her perspective.
“I just feel like this is an amazing time, and anybody who thinks that getting older means life is less is sadly mistaken,” she said.
The press tour for “The Substance” — a film that interrogates beauty, youth, and identity — gave Moore a platform to talk openly about aging. She has said she has worked through years of self-criticism and now approaches herself with more acceptance. At the Gotham Awards, she explained that she sees herself in fuller dimensions than just appearance. During a 2024 appearance on “Today,” she spoke about the joy of watching her daughters grow into independent women.
Turning Heads at Cannes
Moore’s reinvention has extended to her style. She attended the Kering Women in Motion Dinner during the 79th Cannes Film Festival at the Musée de la Castre in Cannes, France, on May 17, 2025. Days later, on May 21, she walked the red carpet for the premiere of “La Bola Negra,” debuting a noticeably shorter hairstyle that marked a departure from her signature long locks.
For the premiere, Moore wore a floor-length sapphire blue gown featuring an oversized bow detail and a subtle train, designed by Self-Portrait under creative director Han Chong and crafted in the label’s London atelier. She completed the look with a bold statement necklace and black sling-back heels. Her shoulder-length lob was styled in soft, voluminous curls with a side part.
The hairstyle shift began earlier in the year, when Moore appeared at Gucci’s FW26 show during Milan Fashion Week with a sleek wet-look bob. Celebrity hairstylist Dimitris Giannetos even nicknamed the cut the “Demi-tris Bob.”
Between the red carpet glow, the career milestones, and a romantic life that suits her exactly the way she wants it, Moore appears to be embracing every part of this chapter — on her own terms.